TURN THAT FROWN UPSIDE DOWN

HOW I WISH OUR CAT, MINKY...


...COULD ALSO DO THIS!


Haay, buhay!

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TOGETHER... FOREVER?

While fate has been confining me in this lovelorn state, I do find it a genuinely happy thing to see people in love, may it be in person or on TV. I look at their faces and see them glow with inexplicable happiness. I listen to them utter words of promises to their special someone and I can sense the sincerity in them. I've always believed that such kind of love is bound to last. They must be really lucky to have found each other, I think to myself, only to find out later that the glow between them has petered out and the promises of forever are broken. Now I wonder, where has all of that lovely feeling gone?

Well, whether we like it or not, finding "the one" requires trial and error (though the romantic side of me insists on only one try and no error). Yes, it is saddening to hear of breakups, but it is oftentimes needed that men and women encounter a number of tries before finally finding that someone meant for them, or in the language of sentimentals, their "soul mate."

A soul mate, as the ever-reliable Wikipedia says, in current usage refers to "a romantic partner, with the implication of an exclusive life-long bond." Personally speaking, I don't believe that the word should always be attributed as such. Well, your best bud can be your soul mate, so is your mother or your sister, or anyone with whom you have a deep bond. So, in that sense, I think all of us have a soul mate, maybe even more than one.

Nevertheless, I can't help but be interested when my brother told me about this YouTube video explaining the Chinese philosophy on why wedding rings are worn on the fourth finger.

Cool, eh?

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BE STRONG

This must be the most confusing time of my life thus far, when even words fail me. I know there's something I want to share, but because I'm not so sure how to say it, the proper words to use don't come to my aid. But, thankfully, sometimes we come across something that does the talking for us. A poem or a song, perhaps, that sums it up. At this moment, for me it is Room For Two's "Roots Before Branches" that lends me such office. Here it goes...

ROOTS BEFORE BRANCHES

So many things to do and say

But I can't seem to find my way

But I wanna know how

I know I'm meant for something else

But first I gotta find myself

But I don't know how

Oh, why do I reach for the stars

When I don't have wings

To carry me that far?

I gotta have roots before branches

To know who I am

Before I know who I wanna be

And faith to take chances

To live like I see

A place in this world for me

Sometimes I don't wanna feel

And forget the pain is real

Put my head in the clouds

Oh, start to run and then I fall

Seein' I can't get it all

Without my feet on the ground

There's always a seed

Before there's a rose

The more that it rains

The more I will grow

I gotta have roots before branches

To know who I am

Before I know who I wanna be

And faith to take chances

To live like I see

A place in this world

For me

Whatever comes

I know how to take it

Learn to be strong

I won't have to fake it

Are you understandin'

The wind can come and do its best

Blow me north and south, east and west

But I'll still be standing

I'll be standing

If I have roots before branches

To know who I am

Before I know who I wanna be

And faith to take chances

To live like I see

A place in this world

I gotta have roots before branches

To know who I am

Before I know who I wanna be

And faith to take chances

To live like I see

A place in this world

For me

I gotta have roots before branches

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